Mental and emotional health is indispensable to your overall health and well-being. Managing emotions and maintaining emotional balance are significant skills. When you manage your emotional health, it helps you face challenges and stress. A lack of emotional regulation skills can lead to poor mental health and difficulty in personal and professional relationships.
In today’s fast-paced and competitive world, it’s common to feel emotionally drained or physically exhausted. Sometimes, we don’t even want to get out of bed. When weakness takes over, we often lose motivation and drive. In today’s article, we’ll explore strategies to rebuild your emotional strength.
Ways to Rebuild Emotional Strength
1. Practice Meditation
Try to meditate once a day, even if only for a few minutes. If you are feeling severe anxiety, meditation might be difficult. Your heart might be beating too heavily, or you might be experiencing uncontainable tremors, which make sitting—and keeping your mind calm—difficult. If meditation feels too difficult, it’s okay to pause and try again another time. But maybe, once a day, give it a shot.
If your body feels tense or restless, gently redirect your focus to sounds around you. Mindful walking can be beneficial if sitting straight feels too painful. If all this fails, you can turn off the lights in your bedroom and stare into the darkness—sitting or lying down.
Reducing external stimulation can help many people feel calmer. When you meditate, try to integrate gratitude or positive reflection practices. Meditate on what you are thankful for in your life. When we are in trouble, it is good to remember the good things still there in our life.
Also, provide yourself compassion for what you are going through—offer yourself all the love you need. One of the great ways to overcome weakness is to practice visualizing positive future moments or experiences that bring hope.
2. Manage Your Stress
Like everyone else, you may have specific triggers that cause stress. You can try to evade a stressful situation, but when you don’t have any option but to face the event or person that causes you to stress, you can find healthy ways to cope with it, such as relaxation techniques or perspective-shifting.
If you know you get stressed by interviews or exams, you must learn how to put them in perspective and not let them become life-defining events for you because your interviews or exams are something you will have to face. Avoiding stressful circumstances can help, but you must know when you can and cannot.
Develop a personal strategy to manage stress so you can better care for yourself. This could be like talking to a friend, believing in yourself, reassessing and reinterpreting your state, meditating, going for a comfortable walk, listening to music, and exercising, to name a few.
3. Practice Self-Compassion
If you want to get better, weaknesses aren’t fun. Also, there are many different reasons for people’s weaknesses. Some weaknesses can arise due to work burnout, which will, most of the time, pass. There is always light at the end of the tunnel.
However, other weaknesses may not pass as easily, mainly if the origin of the weaknesses stems from a chronic mental health condition like depression, bipolar disorder, or schizophrenia.
Not only do those mental health disorders exhaust and burn us out, but they also frequently make it extremely hard to stay positive—a quality that in our society seems to be a must-have. However, how can one stay positive if the same ailment one has been diagnosed with doesn’t let a person remain positive or rational?
Whether we face weaknesses due to work burnout, a chronic mental ailment, the death of a near and dear one, or another chronic disease, we can choose to treat ourselves with self-compassion. To be patient with ourselves, to allow emotions to arise without judgment while caring for ourselves, and to offer ourselves all the love and care that we need.
4. Spend Time with People Whose Company You Enjoy
Spending time with people you love and feel comfortable with provides a sense of being valued and appreciated. Having a healthy relationship with your friends, family, colleagues, and neighbors can develop your sense of emotional well-being and give you a feeling of connection.
Have lunch with a colleague or make plans to meet some friends you haven’t met. Spending quality time with someone in person—if that’s an option for you—is often better than dropping a text or video calling them.
5. Recognize Your Strengths, Weaknesses, and Boundaries
Recognize your strengths and work on your weaknesses. Accepting that you have some weaknesses, just like everyone else, is a significant factor in your mental and emotional well-being.
Set realistic and meaningful goals, and intentionally choose to participate in positive activities. Try to surround yourself with people who support your goals rather than distract you.
6. Communicate Your Needs
While going through weakness, we don’t have the energy we generally have. It might be difficult for us to pay those bills, clean our home, and manage other essential tasks. In times like these, we must seek help from our friends and family.
Though only some of us are good at seeking help, and only some of the friends that we have are selfless enough to provide help. During some weaknesses, we already feel brittle enough, so try not to take it personally if some friends can’t offer support right away.
Therefore, make a list of friends in your mind and select the ones you think will be willing to support you. Let those people one by one know about your situation and ask for their help. Communicate calmly if something they say or do makes you uncomfortable. Only some people know how to deal with someone in those challenging situations, but most are willing to listen and learn.
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7. Self-Care
One positive way to treat weakness is to indulge in self-care. Try to let go of guilt and offer yourself everything you need. If possible, schedule an at-home massage or spa day occasionally. Buy yourself some fresh flowers once a week and put them next to your bed, or add a small plant near your window.
Listen to your favorite songs and sing along if you feel like it. Watch the movies you’ve always wanted to see but never had time for. Have as many warm baths as you want. Meditate and use cultivation practices to feel good. Make a list of things you’ve always wanted to try—and start doing them.
8. Seek Medical Help
In moments of deep exhaustion, all we want is to stay in bed. We like to hide from the world. We might feel physically and mentally weak, we might experience terrible social anxiety that stops us from leaving our house, or we might feel too depressed to leave bed. We may hope that if we just give things a bit of time, we will feel better soon.
While for some of us that might be true, most of us still require professional help. A doctor might prescribe medication to help manage depression or low energy levels, and a therapist may be able to help you with psychotherapy. If helpful, look for a therapist who incorporates mindfulness. You do not need to get through this on your own. There is help and support available—you are not alone.
Conclusion
There can be many reasons behind emotional weakness. They are unique for each individual. But there are some simple yet effective strategies to deal with your weaknesses that can address almost any kind of weakness. Even when challenges persist, we can work toward healing and growth.
